Take the 35 Day Challenge! Sometimes it's hard to know how or where to jump start your relationship. That's where the 35 Day Challenge comes in. It helps you in your journey to that wonderful man, one day at a time. Your Man is Wonderful, you'll find a "What to do" guide and instructions for the coming week. A chart is provided to mark your progress so you can see just how well you're doing, day by day. Don't think of this as "work," think of it as a fun way to bring out the best in your man. Enlist a friend to try the "What to do" daily items with her partner. You'll find that you'll laugh, cry or groan together over what you learn about yourselves in the process. Discovering what's wonderful in your man is a guaranteed way to find out what's wonderful in you, and sharing that with a friend can be delightful. Here's a few "What to do" items you can start on right away (note: these do not contain the supporting instructions included in Your Man is Wonderful): Stop saying, "you're doing it wrong" Acknowledge that there's more than one way to do most anything Recognize whether you view the differences between you as blessings or curses Give your man the time and space to disclose his inner thoughts and feelings Look for what is of benefit to you in his different ways Encourage and support your man's dreams and desires You may ask yourself "Why do I have to do this? Why can't HE just wake up, smell the coffee and be that supposedly wonderful man hiding inside?" Because he's not revealing himself as such. Because, for whatever reason, you're not allowing him to do so (ouch!). Because you're the one who wants the joy and fulfillment of a relationship with a wonderful man. So the ball is in your court—now run with it!